Naive girls piss me off

It is a perpetual source of irritation to me that certain issues are not seen eye to eye between guys and girls.

I’ll name 2 here. One is a perpetual truth, and the second is something that was triggered quite recently.

1) Ask any guy especially those who have a brain, are perceptive and who are honest. Do you think a guy would be really nice to you if he had no designs? Will a guy really be super nice to you and be a super friend for 10 years if you were just a friend? There are only a very few specimens of such a species left crawling on this world. You are lucky enough to be reading the blog of one of them. *smirk*

2) It is an unshakeable truth proven through time that the search for sex is what gets males into trouble, and the search for ‘excitement, fun and thrills’ is what gets females into trouble.

Let’s elaborate.

Why do a bunch of males go on holiday together? Often it is the search for sex. They want to meet someone of a different background (be it race or creed), someone exotic, experience a romantic encounter; meet the perfect lady, etc. BUT no strings attached and when he leaves, he leaves her there. Basically, having a fantasy come true. Sometimes, of course, it is to experience the world, see the world, backpack, whatever. But given a chance for sex, these guys would take it in an instant. Although the original aim of the holiday was not to go for sex, but seizing it if the chance arose definitely is in the back of his mind. Hence, we can conclude that males on holiday are either looking for sex or will seize the chance for sex. And it is this that drives them to far out places, non mainstream commercialized tourist places, strange places, whatever, and it is these places, where people go missing on the regular and no one can trace them because it is impossible. So when males go off, they usually get robbed, or offend someone and get beaten, or get an organ harvested, or worse come to worse, get murdered.

With females, it is a little less blatant. No female will ever admit, even to each other, and often, even to themselves, that they are travelling in search of great sex. But sometimes, a spade is indeed a spade, haha, hence, sometimes they are not travelling to search for great sex. Let us examine why they travel. Ok, possible reasons include:

- have always seen/heard/read so much about it, hence want to go to place X
- want to do the kind of activities only place X allows
- want to live the kind of lifestyle possible in place X

Well, what is wrong with that, you ask. There is nothing inherently wrong with that. However, oftentimes, the kind of activities they want to do is the danger, not the idea of it. Say a girl goes out with the intention of getting laid. I have no problems with that. But there’s the other kind.

They like the idea of going to a place, meeting a bunch of people from other (supposedly more exotic places, hence a Nepalese or Bangladeshi is a definite no no, but a European or American..ahh..now THAT’S 'romantic' [as long as he is white]) countries, and then getting together and just chatting and chilling and hanging out, and then dancing together, going to parties, making them feel happy, high and desirable, and then, they just want to go home and rest, no strings attached.

I hate that. Call me a Chinaman, but I hate that.

It’s the stupidest dumb shit in the world. Girls like that THINK they are in control, and they just want to roll along and suck the fun out, and keep rolling and enjoying and sucking the fun and then when it gets a bit much, they want to backtrack reverse and go home. But they have not thought about the other party, have they?

And this is usually when rapes and ‘going too far’ situations happen, or violence, or worse still, they get conned off and drugged and then they are sold to become prostitutes in far off countries, usually Middle East or Eastern Europe, never to be seen or heard off again. And they cannot escape because they are reliant on the drugs fed to them, and those that are too brilliant, will just get killed. Who knows what kinda sadistic insane people are out there running an industry to suit some bizarre sadist fetishes?

Hmm…I don’t exactly know why I am so incensed with this. It is none of my concern. None of my business. I guess I am just angry that some people can be so dumb and stupid and naïve, and worse still, think they are actually in control, and think they can control a situation where there is another party involved.

How … naive.